We are Happy to Have you!

Whether you’re just starting to explore kink or already have a well-loved collection, welcome. This is your space for curiosity, connection, and unapologetic pleasure. At Obā, we value trust, consent, and the freedom to discover what excites you. Our curated gear—from beginner-friendly toys to serious play tools—is chosen for safety, inclusivity, and quality. We prioritize sourcing from makers within marginalized communities, especially LGBTQIA+ and BIPOC creators, because representation and ethical choices matter. Every product reflects our commitment to body-safe materials, inclusive design, and respect for all dynamics and identities.

Take your Time. Explore. Ask questions. And most of all—play safe, play consensual, and play as your most authentic self.

Ready to explore? Browse our favorites, read our guides, or reach out—we're here to help you build your pleasure toolkit.

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Who We Are

We’re two queer kinksters living in the mountains of Western Montana — partners in life, play, and purpose. Obā began with the search for gear that was made for us — gear that felt affirming, inclusive, fun, affordable and built with care. When we couldn’t find a retailer where we felt seen, represented, or validated, we decided to create one. Now, Obā is a place to where we strive to curate intentional, body-affirming collections that reflect and uplift every body in our community. But we don’t just offer gear — we stand for something. Through our work, we promote safety, share knowledge, and create access to information, especially in local and rural spaces where it’s too often missing.This is kink, done with care.