We are Happy to Have you!

Whether you're just starting to explore kink or you're a seasoned pro with a well-loved collection, welcome. This is your space—a place for curiosity, connection, and unapologetic pleasure. At Obā, we believe BDSM is about trust, consent, and the freedom to discover what lights you up. We're here to support that journey with a unique collection of high quality gear and a vibe that’s all about inclusivity, sex-positivity, and fun. We're also intentional about where our products come from. We prioritize sourcing from makers and businesses within marginalized communities—especially LGBTQIA+ and BIPOC creators—because representation matters, and so does where your money goes. From soft, beginner-friendly tools to serious gear for more intense play, everything we offer is chosen with purpose: body-safe materials, inclusive design, a variety of price points and a deep respect for all kinds of dynamics and identities.

Take your Time. Explore. Ask questions. And most of all—play safe, play consensual, and play as your most authentic self.

Ready to explore? Browse our favorites, read our guides, or reach out—we're here to help you build your pleasure toolkit.

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Who We Are

We’re two queer kinksters living in the mountains of Western Montana — partners in life, play, and purpose. Obā began with the search for gear that was made for us — gear that felt affirming, inclusive, fun, affordable and built with care. When we couldn’t find a retailer where we felt seen, represented, or validated, we decided to create one. Now, Obā is a place to where we strive to curate intentional, body-affirming collections that reflect and uplift every body in our community. But we don’t just offer gear — we stand for something. Through our work, we promote safety, share knowledge, and create access to information, especially in local and rural spaces where it’s too often missing.This is kink, done with care.