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We Love you Montana

Wow. When we started ObĀ we thought we’d ease our way into a full shop by next summer… but you completely blew us away! Since our June soft launch, we’ve been flat-out keeping up with special orders, collabs, events, and classes. We’re two women working full-time jobs on top of running this start-up out of a yurt in the Montana mountains so we appreciate your patience as we navigate this adventure! We are working as hard as we can to meet our community’s needs and find and create products you will love. Finally we are bringing a selection of our favorite toys and collections online, along with pieces from makers we love — and yes, you can special-order the really good stuff! Your support means everything. Dive into what’s live now, stay-tuned daily as we add more to our online inventory and catch us at local pop-ups and events this fall and winter.​​​​​​​

Welcome to ObĀ, where every body belongs

Obā (pronounced "obey") believes pleasure belongs to every body, every identity, and every desire. We welcome all who seek a safe, inclusive space to explore, connect, and express without shame.Through our online shop, education, growing events and in-person activities in western Montana, we’re building a sex-positive sanctuary for discovery, community, and empowerment. Obā proudly centers LGBTQIA+ communities while embracing everyone on their journey.

Not sure where To begin?

Not sure where To begin?

We'll help you find introductory gear for safe and fun exploration

Start Your Adventure Here

Uncuff Your Curiosity — Learn At Live Events

Uncuff Your Curiosity — Learn At Live Events

Catch us at local events — take a class to learn new skills, shop in person, and explore our selection of gear. We’ll be there to show you the gear and how to use it safely and confidently.

Calendar of Events

Customer Cravings

Jump into our most popular collections

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Step Into Character

Paw-sitively Kinky

Paw-sitively Kinky

Unleash your Inner Animal

Unleash Your Inner Animal

Love Is Love

At obĀ , pride isn't a day, it's who we are.

Countdown tO Kink Con

Come say hello to us in-person in at the the Kink Con Weekend Events in Missoula , MT

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Daddi's Special Collection

Daddi keeps a special collection—her favorite implements, each chosen with care, each holding a memory. Neatly arranged in a velvet-lined drawer, every piece has its purpose, its story, and when Daddi opens that drawer, it's not just about discipline—it's about trust, ritual, and the quiet thrill of anticipation. You never know which one she'll choose tonight, but you do know it’ll be exactly what you need.

BABYGIRL's Secret Box

She keeps her favorite things in a little box, all tucked away like secrets just for Daddi. They’re the ones that make her squirm the most, blush the deepest, giggle and beg in all the right ways. Sometimes she leaves them out on purpose, like a dare wrapped in satin. She’ll pout and tease, “Maybe you forgot how to use them?”—but the sparkle in her eyes says she’s hoping daddi proves her very, very wrong.